New Forest Past Rotarians and Associates
I gave my third talk to the New Forest Past Rotarians and Associates on
15 September, this time about Groucho Marx. They now meet at the South
Lawn Hotel in Milford-on-Sea and, as I sat outside this venue on a very
warm morning while they had their business meeting (a window nearby was
open so I could hear when I was just about to be introduced), I found
myself covered in insects. This gave me a great opportunity to open
with Groucho's famous line 'Time flies like an arrow; fruit flies like
a banana'. Decent laugh, good start.
I then re-used the Fred Allen story which got such a good response from the Probus Club of the New Forest a fortnight earlier. It may have been a last-minute addition which was appropriate to the microphone problem there but I could see that it's good enough to be worked into this presentation anywhere. My content often evolves like this: strong additions to an already well-honed script.
Public Speaking Tip #352: Extra material tailored to a particular audience/speaking situation may turn out to have a shelf-life beyond that engagement and become a permanent part of your script.
I had been asked to speak for an hour and when I looked at my watch as I finished, I saw that my talk had lasted for exactly 60 minutes. You develop this level of timing with experience.
This is a small club (just over 20 present) but, as with my previous bookings for them, they gave this talk a very good reception so I assumed that the time had flown like an arrow for them as well as for Groucho!
The lunch at the hotel afterwards was most enjoyable and I really must thank Mr Cauldwell for door-to-door transport from Bournemouth to the venue and back.
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Friday, February 12
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Nick R Thomas A.L.A.M. (Public Speaking)
on Fri 12 Feb 2010 07:39 PM GMT
Bitterne Park Pensioners Club, Southampton
My fellow public speaking blogger Lisa Braithwaite recently posted about a presentation which was very successful despite some major problems with the power supply. Her post reminded me of an evening back in the late 90s when I was booked to speak to a large group of lady diners here in Bournemouth. The hotel suffered a power cut just as the meals were being served (forunately it happened after they had been cooked!) We ate by candlelight and I was quite prepared to deliver my after dinner speech in near-darkness. I wasn't using slides and the lack of a microphone would not have been a problem because I knew the size of the room and where the audience members were sitting so I would be able to project my voice sufficiently. But I would have missed out on making eye contact with them and so it was a good thing that the lights came back on just before I was introduced. However hard we work at preparing and rehearsing our material, we still often rely very heavily on physical objects, be they projectors, microphones or even smaller, non-technical props. As I was setting up ready to deliver the talk My Life as a Freelance Comedy Writer for Bitterne Park Pensioners Club in Southampton on 8 September I was unable to find one of my props - an old identity badge. It's a small object but very important for this talk. It sets up a humorous observation relating back to two other props I have shown the audience earlier (any comic knows how effective this 'reincorporation' of previous material can be), it leads into the anecdote about how I came to be known as 'Nickar' Thomas and this then gives me the opportunity to mention my booklet 'Nick R's in a Twist!' This is then followed by a true, very funny story about names. I had two choices: to omit this material altogether or include it and simply describe the prop to the audience. I certainly was not prepared to sacrifice the laughs or the opportunity to naturally introduce my booklet so I took the second option. It worked. The 35-or-so ladies enjoyed my talk and I sold a decent number of books afterwards. As I mentioned last year when I was stranded due to travel problems caused by heavy snow, it can be possible to get through a presentation without all your usual visual aids, etc. But I missed that prop and was really concerned about what might have happened to it. (I found it later and now take a great more care of it!) Public Speaking Tip #351: A unique visual aid lends so much impact to a speaker's presentation. In return, we should really look after these (often irreplaceable) props. |
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