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"This is an unusual blog; the art of public speaking is crucial to politics and yet there's not much devoted to it specifically. This blog does, with posts combining accounts of the writer's recent engagements with some handy hints. Given some of the turgid speeches we're forced to suffer in the Commons, more MPs could do with reading it". politics.co.uk
"Nick spoke at our joint meeting with Kingston 41 Club. It was a brilliant evening. Nick is an engaging speaker, witty, topical and very interesting. He spoke for three quarters of an hour without notes, a most knowledgeable man. I cannot recommend Nick enough and can assure you that engaging him is a worthwhile endeavour. I wish you a great evening like ours". Manny Martins Vice Chairman of Hamble Valley Stick Club and 41 Club Regional Councillor, Region 24.
"Your speech to our 9 Rotary Clubs in North Surrey was much appreciated by me and I have received lots of feedback which was very positive about you. It was so refreshing to hear someone who has the wit to make us laugh throughout the evening without resort to 'blue' material and swearing. I do hope many others will get the chance to experience your talents". Howard Smith, Assistant Governor Area 1 Rotary District 1140.
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Friday, November 30
by
Nick R Thomas A.L.A.M. (Public Speaking)
on Fri 30 Nov 2007 05:00 PM GMT
The Duke of Edinburgh as a speaker
There has been a great deal of media coverage over the past couple of weeks of the 60th wedding anniversary celebrations of the Queen and Prince Philip. In the late 40s, the Duke of Edinburgh suddenly found himself being required to speak at a huge number of high-profile events (within a short time, he was the patron of several hundred societies!) He became so proficient at this that books of his speeches were published; I own a copy of one. (It is only when he speaks off the cuff without preparation that he tends to make verbal gaffes - rather like George W Bush!) In an interview in the early 60s, he described after dinner speaking as 'a kind of erudite music hall'. This is very true - there has to be a performance element, however good the material. I have always told students that it can take much longer to master injecting life into the delivery of speeches than it does to learn techniques for overcoming nerves. Sometimes a novice speaker can be so busy demonstrating their new-found calmness that it comes at the expense of a lively presentation! This is where recording every speaking engagement can prove to be extremely useful. When I started out, I learned to relax but, perhaps because I had years of national radio comedy scriptwriting experience behind me, I expected my material to win over audiences for me. I soon discovered that it doesn't work like that! So, over time, I learned to 'give it some welly!'. It took a while - often I would feel that I had gone slightly 'over the top' only to listen to the playback and hear little more than a monotone - but, gradually, with experience, despite being a painfully shy person, I became a performer at my speaking engagements. Public Speaking Tip #90: A speaker needs to be energetic, warm and enthusiastic and to vary their style according to content and type of audience. Recording all your speaking engagements will help you to develop these essential qualities.
by
Nick R Thomas A.L.A.M. (Public Speaking)
on Fri 30 Nov 2007 12:23 AM GMT
Slide Presentation by Eric Watson I stayed on at Southbourne Literary Society for the second half of last week's programme: a presentation with slides on 'The History of the Bournemouth Fire Brigade' by Mr Eric Watson, one of this area's most respected speakers. Now, the mere mention of any kind of slide show can produce negative feelings in many people! Perhaps they have found themselves sitting through a neighbour's proud projection of seemingly endless, boring holiday snaps or some dry lecture interrupted by a series of technical hitches with the visual aids. They may even have been subjected to a spectacular but ultimately bafflng modern power point presentation which added nothing to a training day. All I can say is that Eric Watson's slide shows are extremely well-received, in fact next year will see his 1,000th speaking engagement since 1993! He started his presentation by donning a fireman's helmet and reciting a humorous poem about what the job was like - a light-hearted introduction to what would, at times, be a very serious subject. He then told the audience that although they may have seen a well-known book by another retired local fireman, he would be showing a different range of pictures. Throughout the talk, he was able to draw upon his own experiences from nearly 30 years spent driving many of the fire appliances featured in the slides and he also mentioned his regular meetings with other, much older, retired firefighters. Therefore, right from his opening remarks, he had authority (although it has to be said that the fact that he is 6 foot 8 added to this!) Public Speaking Tip #86: You cannot put a decent presentation together from just one book and a bit of extra material from Wikipedia (unless, perhaps, you are the author of the book!) You have to draw your material from a number of sources and viewpoints. Personal working experience connected in some way with your subject gives your talk particular credibility. When the lights were dimmed, Mr Watson's voice didn't go down with them but remained perfectly audible. Many speakers using slides speak much too quietly when the room gets darker and they can no longer see the back row of the audience with the result that a presentation full of stunning visuals is constantly interrupted by calls of 'Can't hear you!' Using a projector doesn't mean that you should stop projecting! Publing Speaking Tip #87: Visual aids are just that - aids for a speaker, not a replacement for him/her. Speak at the same volume when the lights go down for your slide show as you were beforehand. Remember, also, that even though you cannot see your audience, they can still see you in the half-light so you will still need to pay attention to your stance, etc. Continue to make some eye contact in the direction of your audience - don't just look sideways at the screen. There was one technical problem when the projector bulb went, but, like the professional he is, our speaker had brought a spare one which he quickly fitted. While doing this, he asked the audience if they had any questions up to that point. Public Speaking Tip #88: Be prepared for technical hitches, for example, by bringing along any replacement parts you might need. And if your presentation does grind to a temporary halt, try to make good use of the time, for example, by inviting questions from the audience while the problem is fixed; this ensures that they remain involved and interested. There were some fascinating stories, references to a large number of well-known local buildings (most long demolished) and Mr Watson wasn't shy when it came to mentioning his own feelings about the changes which came about when the Bournemouth Fire Brigade was swallowed up by the Dorset Fire Service as part of the county boundary changes in 1974 - informed opinion from someone with first-hand experience of working under these conditions. Public Speaking Tip #89: Personal opinions in a presentation carry a great deal more weight if they are supported by lengthy personal experience. The audience really appreciated the talk. He said it was one that wasn't booked as often as many of his others but his delivery was very polished. I was delighted to meet - and hear - Mr Watson at last; for many years we have been recommending each other for talks purely on reputation! It was a very good way to finish yet another enjoyable evening at Southbourne Literary Society.
Thursday, November 29
by
Nick R Thomas A.L.A.M. (Public Speaking)
on Thu 29 Nov 2007 11:22 AM GMT
Eulogies
The President of Southbourne Literary Society who introduced me and gave the vote of thanks was Mr Bonsor who was at LAMDA with my public speaking tutor Angela Brennan and delivered a superb eulogy at her memorial service. Although this was back in February 2000, I remember it very well and as I have noticed that a number of readers are discovering this blog and website while searching the net for guidance for speaking at funerals, I thought I would mention a few of the elements which made that speech so appropriate. There must have been at least 100 people in the church and Mr Bonsor told us about how Angela was the best student at poetry readings when he studied with her. Anyone who had her as their teacher would have noticed how, even in her 60s, poetry was still important to her, both in the lessons she taught and in performances she still gave locally until her failing health meant she had to give up. By contrast, he then went on to mention some of Angela's early professional credits, such as the first radio soap opera Mrs Dale's Diary. This was certainly something I didn't know about her; I suspect the same applied to many of the other mourners. Public Speaking Tip #83: If you are preparing a eulogy, aim to make the content a mixture of familiar information about the deceased which those who knew them will remember with affection and facts about the person's achievements which may be less well-known, even surprising, thereby reinforcing the fact that they led a remarkable life. The Christmas before Angela died, she had sent out an excellent self-published book of her own poetry. Mr Bonsor finished with a reading of one selection, a piece which I thought really stood out the first time I read it. It was about Angela's love of being amongst people of all kinds. Of course, being a trained actor, his delivery was always likely to be faultless but I was still struck by how well he had familiarised himself with her poem. It was also an example of good structure in that finishing with it brought his speech full circle by referring back to poetry, a subject she had loved since she was a young student. And it was a very good choice of poem because there were so many people of all kinds present that day. Public Speaking Tip #84: There are few occasions when a short, well-chosen reading can be more effective than at a memorial service. Choose carefully; rehearse well. Eulogies tend to be short - and prepared at short notice. You have just a few hundred words in which to sum up a life. How do you go about this? Try asking yourself the following question... Public Speaking Tip #85: If a complete stranger found the notes for the eulogy you prepared, or perhaps heard a recording of you delivering it, would your choice of words really make them wish they had known that person? |
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